Sex can be used either for self-affirmation or for self-transcendence – either to intensify the ego and consolidate the social persona by some kind of conspicuous ‘embarkation’ and heroic conquest, or else to annihilate the persona and transcend the ego in an obscure rapture of sensuality, a frenzy of romantic passion, more creditably, in the mutual charity of the perfect marriage.Aldous Huxley
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The statement is about the ways in which sex can be used by men to affirm their masculinity, or by women to affirm their femininity. The statement supports the idea that masculine sexuality is seen as a source of power, while feminine sexuality is seen as a source of pleasure and fulfillment.
Source: The Devils Of Loudun
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